“同意就像一杯茶..."
Script by Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess | Animation by Rachel Brian | VO by Graham Wheeler
什么是同意?
同意的是:
- 言语或行为表现出一种清晰, knowing and voluntary agreement to engage in a specific sexual activity during a sexual encounter.
- 明确的决定:通过明确的行动或言语作出的肯定的、明确的和自愿的决定.
- 同意不能从沉默中推断出来, 被动或缺乏主动抵抗, 恋爱:当前的或以前的约会或性关系, consent to one form of 性接触 does not imply consent to other forms of 性接触.
同意也是:
- 用你的身体和语言说“是”
- 清醒时给予
- 清晰的沟通
- 这是你真正尊重和关心你的伴侣的标志
- 双行道
- 连续且间隔地给定(它是一个过程)!)
- 性感的
同意不是:
- 沉默
- 睡眠
- 之前有过性行为
- 醉酒
- 接吻或有其他性行为
- 恋爱(如果他/她说他们爱我，这肯定没问题)
“同意”是通过明确的行动或言语做出的肯定决定. 重要的是不要做假设. If confusion or ambiguity on the issue of consent arises anytime during the sexual interaction, 每个参与者都必须停下来澄清, 口头上, 继续的意愿. 不能仅仅从沉默、被动或缺乏主动抵抗来推断同意. 此外, 目前或以前的约会或性关系不足以构成同意, and consent to one form of sexual activity does not imply consent to other forms of sexual activity.
It is important to note that a person who is intoxicated is not legally able to give consent to 性接触 or sexual acts. 另外, a person 17 years old or younger is not legally able to give consent to a sexual act or contact with a person 18 or older.
以下是一些关于校园性侵犯最常见的问题.
我害怕举报性侵犯，因为我当时正在喝酒，而且还不到21岁. 如果我举报的话会不会因为未成年人饮酒而惹上麻烦?
NDSCS致力于以敏感和谨慎的态度应对性侵犯案件. Students who experience sexual misconduct while under the influence of alcohol or other drugs, 将不受学生行为程序的约束, 该十大平台网赌也不会成为学生行为记录的一部分. 如果你被侵犯了，害怕报案, 请随时联系Sandi Gilbertson, 第九章副协调员，701-671-2904或梅丽莎·约翰逊, 第九条副协调员，701-671-2224. Any of these individuals can provide you with resources and further discuss reporting options for your specific situation.
有可能匿名举报性侵犯吗?
是的. 你可以向NDSCS提交匿名性侵犯报告，只需填写 NDSCS关注报告表格. This reporting system may also be used by third-party individuals who have witnessed a sexual assault or have information that an assault occurred. 然而, the ability of NDSCS to investigate and resolve anonymous complaints will be limited if the information contained in the anonymous report cannot be verified by independent facts.
如果我被宿舍里的人性侵犯了, 学校能帮我找到不同的住房吗?
是的! 在你生活、工作、学习和娱乐的地方感到安全是你的权利. 如果你觉得你住的地方不安全，请联系住宿生活.
有多少性侵犯发生在大学校园?
根据… 2014年，美国政府发布了一份报告.S. 律政司在美国，强奸和性侵犯的发生率为1%.非学生高出2倍(7).6 / 1000)比学生(6 / 1000)高.千分之一).
男性会成为性侵犯的受害者吗?
是的，男人可以成为性侵犯的受害者. 不到5%的青少年和成人性侵犯受害者是男性. 当男性被侵犯时, 肇事者通常是男性, thus the bulk of both the research on sexual assault and prevention efforts focuses on female victims. 如果你是一个被性侵犯的男人, it is important to remember that it is not your fault and that there are resources available for you.
我的朋友被性侵了，我能做些什么来帮助他们?
帮助从性侵犯中恢复过来的朋友可能是一种难以承受的经历. 记住这一点很重要, 事实上，“解决”问题不是你的职责, 再次从受害者手中夺走控制权会让他再次受害). 作为朋友, it is most important that you show your friend that you 相信 them and are there to listen when they 想要 说话. 作为朋友，你也可以让他们知道他们可以获得资源. Many people who help friends recover from sexual assault find that they also need help processing their own feelings surrounding the experience. The NDSCS Student 健康 and 咨询服务 Personal Counselor is a trained professional ready to listen and help.
我能做什么?, 作为NDSCS学生的家长, 如何保护我的孩子在校园里不受性侵犯?
第一个, it is important to discuss sexual assault with your child before they come to campus as a freshman. Studies have shown that the freshman year is when female students are most vulnerable to becoming victims of sexual assault. While we do our best to provide students with information regarding sexual assault early on in their academic career, 他们在这个话题上的对话越多, 他们准备得越充分. It is especially important that parents speak with their male students regarding appropriate behavior, 以及酒精和性结合的潜在危险.
按此浏览 帮助你关心的人.
在法律和社会领域，性侵犯的定义多种多样. 一般来说，性侵犯被理解为 不需要的 性接触 任何形式的. 然而，法律上的定义可以根据州的不同而改变. 有些州把强奸和性侵犯这两个词混在一起使用.
在北达科他州，性侵犯被称为 严重性侵犯 and includes both sexual acts (rape) and 性接触 (all other touching, above or below clothes). 北达科他州世纪法典第12章.1-20-03部分内容如下:
1. 性伴侣:与他人发生性行为的人, 或者导致他人进行性行为的, 犯了罪行，如果:
a. 该人以武力或即将死亡的威胁强迫受害人屈服, 严重身体伤害或绑架, 折磨:强加于任何人的;
b. That person or someone with that person’s knowledge has substantially impaired the victim’s power to appraise or control the victim’s conduct by administering or employing without the victim’s knowledge intoxicants, 第19-03章所定义的管制物质.(一)以防止抵抗为目的的其他手段;
c. That person knows or has reasonable cause to 相信 that the victim is unaware that a sexual act is being committed upon him or her;
d. 被害人不满十五周岁的; or
e. That person knows or has reasonable cause to 相信 that the other person suffers from a mental disease or defect, 使他或她无法理解他或她行为的本质.
2. 性接触者与他人发生性接触的人, 或者导致他人发生性接触的人, 犯了罪行，如果:
a. 被害人不满十五周岁的;
b. 该人以武力或即将死亡的威胁强迫受害人屈服, 严重身体伤害或绑架, 折磨:强加于任何人的; or
c. That person knows or has reasonable cause to 相信 that the victim is unaware that 性接触 is being committed on the victim.
Sexual assault is any sexual behavior between two or more people to which one person does not or cannot consent. 这包括性行为或与他人的接触，可能涉及:
- Compelling a person to submit to sexual acts or contacts by force, threat of force or intimidation;
- Use of intoxicants to substantially impair the person’s power to give consent; or
- 未成年的受害者. (NOTE: the age of consent may vary depending on the ages of the individuals involved in the act and where the act occurs.)
- 11.2%的学生经历过强奸或性侵犯, 暴力, 或丧失行为能力(适用于所有研究生和本科生).[2]
- 本科生23人.女性占1%，女性占5%.4% of males experience rape or sexual assault through physical force, 暴力, or incapacitation.[2]
- 21%的TGQN(变性人), genderqueer, 不守规矩的大学生遭到过性侵犯, 而非tgqn的女性只有18%, 非tgqn男性的比例为4%.[2]
- 只有20%的18-24岁的女学生受害者会向执法部门报案.[1]
- More than 50% of college sexual assaults occur in either August, September, October, or November.[3]
- Students are at an increased risk during the first few months of their first and second semesters in college.[3]
不管是不是学生，大学年龄的成年人发生性暴力的风险很高.
- Male college-aged students (18-24) are 78% more likely than non-students of the same age to be a victim of rape or sexual assault.[1]
- Female college-aged students (18-24) are 20% less likely than non-students of the same age to be a victim of rape or sexual assault.[1]
1. 律政司, 司法项目办公室, 司法统计局, 大学年龄女性的强奸与性受害, 1995-2013 (2014).
2. 大卫·康托尔、邦妮·费舍尔、苏珊·奇布纳尔、里安娜·汤森等. al. 美国大学协会, Report on the AAU Campus Climate Survey on Sexual Assault and Sexual Misconduct (September 21, 2015). ("Victim services agency” is defined in this study as a “public or privately funded organization that provides victims with support and services to aid their recovery, 提供保护, 指导他们完成刑事司法程序, 并协助获得赔偿.RAINN提供这些数据仅用于教育目的, and strongly recommends using the citations to review any and all sources for more information and detail.)
3. Campus Sexual Assault Study, 2007; Matthew Kimble, Andrada Neacsiu, et. Al, 大学女生不想要的性行为的风险:红色区域的证据, 美国大学健康杂志(2008).
Helping a friend or family member as they recover from sexual assault can be an overwhelming experience, 重要的是要记住，“解决”问题不是你的职责(事实上), 从受害者手中夺走控制权 再一次。 可以re-victimize). 作为家人和朋友，最重要的是你要向你所爱的人展示你 相信 当他们 想要 说话. 你也可以让他们知道他们可以得到什么资源. Many people who help a survivor recover from sexual assault find that they also need help processing their own feelings surrounding the experience. The NDSCS Student 健康 and 咨询服务 Personal Counselor is a trained professional ready to listen and help.